Perfect Wedding Boulevard

Perfect Wedding Boulevard (PWB) was created to fulfil the needs and wants of brides and grooms who are looking for vendors to help achieve their dream wedding. Couples, especially the bride, tend to become overly frustrated and stressed when they are planning their weddings, and with the help of PWB, couples will be able to look for vendors more easily and wedding planners who can help the couple experience a stress free and memorable occasion that they will never forget.

Sunday, April 25, 2010

Funny Wedding Vows

I, (name), take you (name), to be my (wife/ husband), to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer, for even poorer when I've been shopping a lot, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from this day forward until death do us part.

I (name), take you (name), to be my beloved wife. I promise to love you and be your faithful partner, for better for worse, for richer, for poorer, when the MU are winning, and when they are losing, in sickness, and in health, and in Jets-induced sickness. I will be true and loyal, and cherish you for all the days of our lives.

I (name), take you (name), to be my lawfully wedded (husband/ wife) and chief badminton doubles partner, for richer, for poorer, for better, for worse, in sickness and in health, for when we win and the very very rare occasion when we lose. I promise to love, honor, and cherish you, to return your serves and do my best not to foot fault. This I vow to you.

Source: Wedding by Events Wizard
http://www.facebook.com/pages/Weddings-by-Events-Wizard/432965760264

Thursday, April 1, 2010

Penang Floral Fest 2010 (27.11.2010 - 05.12.2010)

Venue: Penang Botanic Gardens

Address: Jalan Kebun Bunga, 10350 Penang, Malaysia.

Homepage: No Homepage available

Details:

Flowers are one of the most important items for a wedding, especially as decoration for the venue. Fresh flowers or exotic plants may even be an eye-catcher for the occasion. Thus, for those who wish to have fresh flowers on the venue, or one or two special blossoms or orchids, the Penang Floral Fest may be one of the opportunities.

The event is held as the followingg:

Date: 27th Nov - 5th Dec 2010
Time: 9:00am - 5:00pm
Venue: Penang Botanic Gardens, Georgetown.

During the occasion, there will be workshops, exhibitions, as well as various classes and seminars related to flowers, giving you more insights into how to choose and which plants to choose for your occasion.

Also, remember to bring along your camera to snap photos of trees and plants that are bountiful in the garden itself.

The Wedding Diary Asia 2010 (06.08.2010 - 08.08.2010)

Venue: Marina Bay Sands

Address: 220 Mountbatten Road #02-34 Mountbatten Square Mountbatten Square,
Singapore

Homepage: No Homepage available

Details:

The Wedding Diary Asia 2010 presents the fabulous haute couture ensembles from classic styling to the most sensuous type. It will start with many participants but today the number has more than doubled. It is the ultimate showcase of the needs of the bride and groom to be. The event is held at the following date and venue:

Date: 6th - 8th Aug 2010
Venue: Marina Bay Sands

For more information please contact the organiser at:

info@theweddingdiaryasia.com

International Beauty Expo 2010 (22.05.2010 - 25.05.2010)

Venue: Kuala Lumpur Convention Centre

Address: Kuala Lumpur City Centre, 50088, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Homepage: http://www.klconventioncentre.com.my/index_flash.html

Details:

Beauty and wellness is an essential in life. For would-be-brides, this will be the chance for you to find your most suitable beauty-care services to prepare for your big day. For newly-weds, this is also an opportunity to learn more about beauty care that will last you a lifetime.

Organised by Elite Expo, the International Beauty Expo (IBE) 2010 will be held as following:

Date: 22nd - 25th May 2010
Time: 11am - 7pm
Venue: KL Convention Center
Admission: Pre-Registration required. Visitors must be dressed appropriately. Children aged 12 and below are not allowed.

Highlights of the event will include:
- The IBE Hairdresser Awards
- Seminars & Workshops by Renowned experts of the beauty profession

For further information, you may contact the organiser at:
Elite Expo Sdn Bhd
4-3, Jalan Radin Anum Satu, Sri Petaling, 57000 Kuala Lumpur, West Malaysia.
Tel: (603) 9058 8772
Fax: (603) 9058 8773

Email: exhibition@elite.com.my

Indian Wedding Expo 2010 (22.04.2010 - 25.04.2010)

Venue: Midvalley Megamall

Address: Mid Valley City, Lingkaran Syed Putra, 59200, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Homepage: http://www.midvalley.com.my/event.asp

Details:

Once again, the Indian Wedding Expo in Mid Valley is back again. Details of the events are as the following:

Date: 22^nd – 25^th April 2010
Venue: Midvalley Exhibition Center, Hall 1
Time: 10am – 10pm
Admission: Open to the General Public

Featured Events:
≈ Fashion Show ≈
≈ Dance Performance ≈
≈ Kolam Demonstration ≈
≈ Mahendi Demonstration ≈
≈ Health & Beauty Care ≈
≈ Competition & Lucky Draws ≈
≈ Product Demonstration≈
≈ Cake Decoration≈
≈ Game Show≈
≈ Food presentation≈
≈ Astrologer talk on Wedding

The Indian Wedding Expo creates a business platform for those providing wedding services, as well as for those looking for bargains. Local companies and oversea franchises are all invited to participate in this event as well, including various prizes and honeymoon packages waiting to be won at the lucky draw and competitions; not missing the bridal fashion shows on the latest bridal trends as well.

The event is organized by D'Organiser (M) Sdn Bhd which is managed by a Team with over 25 Years of experience in event management, organizing, as well as sales & marketing.

For further information, please contact them at: Organiser: D’Organiser (M) Sdn. Bhd.
Tel: 7877 4309
Fax: 7877 3409
HP: 012-366 9714 / 012- 296 5545
info@indian-wedding-expo.com

2nd Dream Wedding Expo 2010 (10.04.2010 - 11.04.2010)

Venue: Midvalley Megamall

Address: Mid Valley City, Lingkaran Syed Putra, 59200, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Homepage: http://www.midvalley.com.my/event.asp

Details:

THis April, Midvalley is the venue for another wedding fair. Though not as grand as the previous fair in March, or the upcoming Idian Wedding Expo, the 2nd Dream WEdding Expo 2010 might just be the one for couples who already have a list of choice at hand, or who wish to avoid the usual large and confusing numbers of choices in larger fairs. Details of the fair is as the following:

Date: 10th - 11th Apr 2010 (Sat-Sun)
Venue: MVEC, Hall 3
TIme: 11am-9pm
Admission: FREE for the general public

The event is organised by Dream Maker Productions Sdn. Bhd. which you may contact at the following details:

Dream Maker Productions Sdn Bhd
+603 9131 5166
+603 9132 5166
eric@dreammaker.com.my
www.dreammaker.com.my

7th Malaysia International Gold and Jewellery Fair 2010

Venue: Kuala Lumpur Convention Centre

Address: Kuala Lumpur City Centre, 50088, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

Homepage: http://www.klconventioncentre.com.my/index_flash.html

Details:

If you're planning to proprose later this 2010, then you should not miss this opportunity to find the perfect diamond/ treasure for your loved one.

The 7^th Malaysia International Gold and Jewellery Fair 2010 will be held as the following:

Date:10th - 13th Apr 2010
Venue:KL Convention Center
Time: 11:00 am - 6:00 pm
Admission: RM10 perperson, FREE for Invitation Card holders.

Do take note that individuals under the age of 16 are not allowed, and all visitors must be dressed appropriately. Sandals and shorts are not allowed.

Apart from exhibiting valuable and exquisite jewellery, gold jewellery will also be highlighted and specially showcased in this foremost jewellery exhibition. Malaysia, with the highest production of gold in Asia, is the sole Southeast Asian Nation holding the jeweler fair. IJG 2010 will provide a superb business platform for exhibitors to enlarge their customer base, further develop their business and increase their revenues.

Couple Sushi Eating Contest by Sakae Sushi

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Wednesday, March 31, 2010

ROM – Marriage Registration (Jabatan Pendaftaran Malaysia)

Registering Your Marriage

It is important to understand the dynamics of the legal system to get a gist of how and when to register your marriage. This will equip you with the necessary knowledge of how to go about setting your civil marriage solemnization, religious ceremony and reception dates. Knowing the time factor requirements for the solemnization of your wedding will help you avoid any unintended situations in which you have to re-schedule or delay your religious ceremonies, receptions and other engagements. The following illustrates the process of filing a solemnization date by the Registry of Marriages, Singapore. Detailed requirements for the filing of your marriage can be found on the Registry of Marriages, Singapore website.

Non-Islamic Marriages
Irrespective of whether you decide to register your marriage directly at the Registry of Marriages (ROM) venue, or at a religious venue, it is imperative that you file a notice of your civil marriage at least 21 days before the actual solemnization date. You are able to then register a date for solemnization between 21 days and 3 months after filing for a notice of marriage. If you are getting married within the premises of the ROM, you may be able to change solemnization details until the day of the ceremony before the wedding. However, if you are getting married at a venue that’s outside of the ROM, you can change the date of solemnization up until 5-10 days before. You cannot change the date of solemnization to one that is beyond 3 months of filing the notice. You are only able to solemnize your wedding at the ROM venue from Mondays to Fridays.

Application Procedure

Applicants are required to go to the NRD counter/Assistant Registrar appointed by the Malaysian Consul/Embassy with the following supporting documents:

1. Identity card
2. Passport for foreign citizens
3. 1 coloured photo (32mm X 38mm)
4. Consensus form /licence (if relevant)
5. Birth certificate (for applicants 16-20 years old)
6. Death certificate (if relevant) Letter confirming marital status (single)

If divorced:

1. Letter confirming marital status after divorce (original)
2. Decree nisi for absolute divorce (original & photocopy)

Conditions of Application

Normal marriage:

* Application will be displayed for 21 days from the date of application
* Complete Form JPN.KCO2 and attach supporting documents
* Payment: RM30.00

Marriage by special licence:

* Application of marriage without notification (21 days) and declaration of marriage
* Must obtain approval from the Assistant Registrar General/ Registrar General/State Superintendent/Minister/Menteri Besar
* Complete Form JPN.KCO2 and KCO1C (special licence) and attach supporting documents
* Payment:
JPN.KCO1C: RM100
Processing Fee: RM20.00

Information: The form in the website is only a guide. It should not be printed and used for dealings with the Marriage and Divorce Section. For dealings with this section, please use the original form.

Do note that you cannot cancel a notice of marriage as well. As written on the Registry of Marriage, Singapore website, the Singapore law states that ‘If the marriage does not take place within 3 months after the date of notice, the notice and all proceedings consequent thereupon shall be void, and fresh notice shall be given before the parties can lawfully marry.’ Hence, if you are not able to solemnize your wedding within the three months, you will have to once again file for a notice of marriage at the ROM.

Islamic Marriages
When registering your marriage at the Registry of Muslim Marriages (ROMM), you would have to file a notification of marriage a minimum of 7 and a maximum of 150 days before the date you wish to get solemnized. You can change the date of solemnization within the 7 to 150 day time frame from the date you registered the notice of marriage. If you wish to change the solemnization date beyond the 150 days, you will have to re-register your notice of marriage. If you have both made a decision to cancel your solemnization, both you and your partner would have to come down to the ROMM and cancel it in the presence of a Kadi.

JPN Negeri Perlis
Tingkat 2, Bangunan Persekutuan,
Persiaran Jubli Emas, 01000 Kangar.
Tel : 604 979 2500, 604 979 5202, 604 979 5203
Fax : 604 976 7622
E-mail : admin_kangar@jpn.gov.my

JPN Negeri Kedah
Tingkat 1, Wisma Persekutuan,
Jalan Kampung Baru, 05551 Alor Setar.
Tel : 604 731 4359
Fax : 604 733 0270
E-mail : admin_alorsetar@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Kuala Muda
Tingkat 3, Wisma Keladi, 08000 Sungai Petani.
Tel : 604 421 2726
Fax : 604 423 0292

Penang

JPN Negeri Pulau Pinang
Tingkat 3, Bangunan Persekutuan,
Jalan Anson, 10551 Pulau Pinang.
Tel : 604 226 5161
Fax : 604 226 9320
E-mail : admin_georgetown@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Bayan Baru
No. 2A-1, Tkt Kenari 6, Desa Ria, Sungai Ara,
11960 Bayan Lepas, Pulau Pinang.
Tel : 604 643 7460
Fax : 604 644 4004
Perak

JPN Negeri Perak
Aras 3 & 4, Kompleks Pejabat Kementerian
Hal Ehwal Dalam Negeri,
Persiaran Meru Utama,
Bandar Meru Raya, 30200 Perak
Tel : 605 528 8805
Fax : 605 529 8802

JPN Daerah Kuala Kangsar
Tingkat Bawah, Bangunan Pajabat Daerah, JKR
89, Jalan Raja Chulan, 33000 Kuala Kangsar.
Tel : 605 776 1166
Fax : 605 777 7487

Selangor

JPN Negeri Selangor
Tkt. 7, Plaza Masalam,
No. 2, Jalan Tengku Ampuan Zabedah E9/E,
Seksyen 9, 40100 Shah Alam.
Tel : 603 5519 7155
Fax : 603 5510 7055
E-mail : admin_shahalam@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Klang
Tingkat 2, Bangunan Lembaga Tabung Haji,
Jalan Kapar, 41400 Klang.
Tel : 603 3342 1455
Fax : 603 3342 5002

JPN Petaling Jaya
Tingkat 1, Bangunan Persekutuan, Persiaran Barat,
Jalan Sultan, 46551 Petaling Jaya.
Tel : 603 7956 2634
Fax : 603 7957 5628

Putrajaya
Ibu Pejabat Jabatan Pendaftaran Negara
Putrajaya, No. 20, Persiaran Perdana, Presint 2,
62551 W. P. Putrajaya.
Tel : 603 8880 7000
Fax : 603 8880 7059

JPN W.P. Kuala Lumpur
Tingkat 6 & 7, Maju Junction Mall,
1001, Jalan Sultan Ismail, 50551 Kuala Lumpur.
Tel : 603 2692 5044
Fax : 603 2692 3568
E-mail : admin_wilayah@jpn.gov.my

JPN Taman Maluri
Lot 154.1.7 – 154.1.10 Kompleks Maluri,
Jalan Jejaka, Taman Maluri, 55100 Kuala Lumpur.
Tel : 603 9285 8264
Fax : 603 9284 8267

JPN Negeri Sembilan
Tkt. 1, Wisma Persekutuan, Jalan Dato’ Abdul Kadir,
70551 Seremban.
Tel : 606 765 1600
Fax : 606 763 8312
E-mail : admin_seremban@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Port Dickson
No. 70, (Tingkat Bawah), Jalan Dato’
K. Pathmanaban, 71000 Port Dickson, Negeri Sembilan.
Tel : 606 647 1077
Fax : 606 647 9305

JPN Negeri Melaka
Aras 1, Blok Pentadbiran Kompleks KHEDN,
Jalan Seri Negeri, Air Keroh, 75450 Melaka.
Tel : 606 232 6600
Fax : 606 232 6376
E-mail : admin_melaka@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Bandar Alor Gajah
No. 3053, Tingkat 1, Bandar Alor Gajah,
78000 Alor Gajah, Melaka.
Tel : 606 556 3055
Fax : 606 556 9093
Johor

JPN Negeri Johor
Tingkat 1 & 2, Blok A, Jalan Air Molek,
Wisma Persekutuan, 80551 Johor Bharu.
Tel : 607 224 5388
Fax : 607 222 6286
E-mail : admin_johorbahru@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Pontian
Aras Bawah, Wisma Kariah,
No. 349, Jalan Pejabat, 82000 Pontian.
Tel : 607 687 1348
Fax : 607 688 3373

JPN Negeri Pahang
Aras Bawah & Satu, Kompleks KHEDN
Indera Mahkota, 25551 Kuantan.
Tel : 609 573 4455
Fax : 609 573 7700
E-mail : admin_kuantan@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Mentakab
No. 3, Bangunan UMNO Cawangan Temerloh,
Jalan Abidin Off Jalan Abdul Kadir,
28400 Mentakab.
Tel : 609 278 1239
Fax : 609 278 1121

JPN Negeri Terengganu
Tingkat 2, Wisma Persekutuan, Jalan Raya Bunga,
20200 Kuala Terengganu.
Tel : 609 630 1031
Fax : 609 623 0839
E-mail : admin_kterenggany@jpn.gov.my

JPN Daerah Kerteh
Lot 4, Bandar Sri Kerteh,
24300 Kerteh, Kemaman.
Tel : 609 826 0180
Fax : 609 826 0182

Kelatan
JPN Negeri Kelatan
Tkt. 1, Wisma Persekutuan, Jalan Bayam,
15551 Kota Bharu.
Tel : 609 748 2793
Fax : 609 748 7867
E-mail : admin_kotabharu@jpn.gov.my

JPN Negeri Sabah
Aras 1-5, Blok B, Kompleks Pentadbiran Kerajaan
Persekutuan, Jalan UMS, Likas 88400 Kota Kinabalu.
Tel : 6088 488 300
Fax : 6088 488 326
E-mail : admin_kkinabalu@jpn.gov.my

JPN Negeri Sarawak
Bangunan Tun Datuk Patinggi,
Tuanku Haji Bujang, 93551 Kuching.
Tel : 6082 242 223
Fax : 6082 242 446
E-mail : admin_kuching@jpn.gov.my

JPN Malaysia: www.jpn.gov.my

Flowers – To have and to hold

As you make your presence at a wedding reception, what usually catches your attention are the music, the ambience and oh those lovely smells of freshly cut blooms! Flowers are an essential element to all weddings as they add galore to the whole occasion. Jasmines and roses are the customary flowers used for weddings here in Malaysia namely because of their fragrance and the colours which compliment the whole theme.

Decorations for wedding receptions consist of greens, buds and blooms and although white colours are usually the norm, pastel shades can be chosen to blend with the other ornaments of the bridal party.

A Handful of tips for that special bridal bouquet

Your bridal bouquet should compliment your wedding gown. Therefore, if you’re using a simple couture, then you should opt for a more elaborate hand bouquet and vice versa.

Do opt for local blooms as they’re inexpensive and they come in wide varieties.

Bear in mind that the wedding flowers you choose depend highly on your personality and the texture of your wedding gown:

Lilies of the Valley and roses arranged in smaller cascades are best suited for petite brides.

Calla lilies and orchids make the perfect bridal bouquet for taller brides.

Camellia and gardenias go very well with satin and brocade wedding dresses.

Set a budget and discuss with your florist so that the final outcome will be suitable to your finances and requirements. After all, you wouldn’t want to be broke on your wedding day.

Wedding cakes – It’s all in the frostings

The sweetest thing about weddings (apart from the bride’s smile) is definitely the wedding cake. Sculptured to perfection, it sits centre stage for all to marvel and adore. Tiramisu, chocolate or even vanilla are usually the traditional choices of wedding cakes as they symbolise the sweet beginning of a lifetime’s journey.

The highlight of the reception is usually the cutting of the cake which takes place just before dessert is served. Guests are sometimes allowed to sample the wedding cake and traditionally, the top layer is preserved by freezing. This is so that on each anniversary, the wedded couple will have a small piece of their original wedding cake to enjoy.

Useful Tips:

Cakes come in all shapes and colours. So it’s always best to do a bit of research before hunting for the best deals. Most important of all, do inform your cake designer of your wedding theme.

Bear in mind that wedding cakes are tedious to design. Depending on the size and frosting of the cake, it might takes weeks maybe even months to complete the cake of your dreams. So book in advance and consult your cake designer before making your final pick.

Do make a confirmation of the number of guests who’ll be present at your reception as the size of the cake depends on the volume of the crowd.

Before giving the thumbs up sign, see what your cake designer has to offer and don’t forget to sample a piece of it.

Once you’ve made the perfect selection, do remember to make the necessary arrangements for the delivery of the cake to your chosen venue.

A wedding reception to remember

Your wedding reception is probably the most important part of your wedding – it is the official celebration of your union with your family and your friends! With endless choices of wedding reception themes and styles, why not try something new and different instead of going with a “ traditional” one?

An “unconventional” reception done properly will have your guests talking about it long after it is over – a sure sign that it was a memorable event. You can be as creative with your ideas as you want, and to help you get inspired, here are some great suggestions :

● Garden reception in the morning with a delicious picnic spread
● Pool side barbeque
● Buffet-style reception with servings of food from all over the world, probably in memory of places you have been together
● Light cocktail reception with great entertainment and lots of mingling and interaction

Things to remember when planning your reception

Your reception style and venue should be one of the first things you decide on. Simply put, no venue means no wedding, and if you are choosing a venue that is very popular for weddings and other events, remember that you will need to make your reservations around 12 months in advance. Before you sign on the dotted line, go through the checklist below to help you decide on your venue :

● Size of your wedding ceremony (will it accommodate all your guests?)
● Price versus your budget.
● If your wedding ceremony takes place on the same day as your reception, will it be convenient for you and your guests to move from one venue to the other?
● Will the venue be exclusive to you, or will you have to share?
● Payment policy (e.g. deposits, full payment, when and how much?)
● Cancellation fees.
● What is included in the wedding package?
● Can you dictate or design the menu?
● Is there a menu sampling?
● Corkage fees, alcohol and related policies.
● Is a wedding cake included in the packages?
● Are reception decorations or flowers included?
● Are you allowed to bring in your own vendors for flowers, cakes, etc?
● Are entertainment and audiovisual systems provided?
● Time limit for your reception and extra charges for running overtime.
● Does the venue offer off-peak rates?
● If you would like to have a dance floor, do they have the space?
● Parking availability and policies.

Tips for cost-cutting :

● Hold your reception on a weekday.
● Cut out a course at your reception and serve your wedding cake as desert instead.
● Keep your guest list to minimum; intimate wedding receptions are a trend these days!

Top 5 tips for choosing your wedding ring

1. Remember the four Cs: carat weight, cut, clarity and colour when evaluating a diamond, but don’t assume that, just because you’re spending a lot of money, this is anything other than an emotional investment.

2. Don’t get too hung up on a specific carat weight. Because there is a leap in price between a stone that weighs 0.9 of a carat and a one-carat stone. If you’re going for a three-stone wedding ring, for example, choose an 0.8 carat stone flanked by two 0.4 carat stones: it will be considerably cheaper than a one-carat flanked by two halves.

3. Be as extravagant as you want, but consider practicality, you will wear this every day for the rest of your life.

4. Ask if the retailer subscribes to the Kimberley Process, which should eliminate any conflict diamonds. If you are going to spend a substantial amount of money on your diamond rings, go for certified diamonds for better investment value.

5. ‘Always go for the biggest you can afford. Some ladies worry about a diamond being too flashy as it is often their first piece of proper jewellery. But everything shrinks with age and they will soon get very used to it, and might regret not going for the bigger one in the first place.’

Grooms, the right tux for you !

No, forget about renting your tux on your wedding day. Avoid falling into the same mistakes of looking like you borrowed your jacket from your dad. Plus, getting a made to measure tux fitted to your body is your best investment. On your wedding day, your beautiful bride gazing at you adoringly like a love struck teenager, your parents (parents in law too) so proud with you, you’ll be thinking a touch down. But choosing the right one is as vital as not forgetting your bride’s ring on your wedding day !

1. Tall, Slender, Medium height and build

You're the lucky ones, any style goes for you. Just remember the rule of thumb a perfectly fitted suit. If you are on the thinner side, or you want to make yourself look muscular in seconds, ask for a slightly more padded shoulder and a comfortable extent at the waist. Honestly, with your type of body, don't worry handsome!

2. Tall and Muscular

The answer is a shawl-collar tux, they are just right for you. Do remember to wear the jacket long enough. Relax your hand on the side and your jacket should end at your fingertips. Carefully choose your tie or collar choice or you'll look like you're being choked.

Tips: if you are on the heavier side, opt for a vest. The partition will make you look like prince charming.

3. Short, muscular and stocky side
Opt for single breasted cut and the button should be as low around the beld area to make you look leaner. Shoulder pads are no no. Again opt for vest over the traditional cummerbunds.

4. Short and thin
The perfect cut for you will be single breasted cut with single button placed low, of course a double breasted jacket will look good on you too. To appear broader, a peak lapel or notched is a good choice. Elegant,

minimalist vest or smaller bow ties are best for you.

Tips: Well just in case you cannot decide on your suit or not available, go for shawl collar. It’s classic and you wrong.

Wedding gown in colour?

Did you know ?

White has remain an all time favourites for brides since Queen Victoria of England marriage to Albert in year 1840, interesting to note too that prior to her historic wedding gown choice, there weren´t any wedding gown preferred colour.

Not all brides prefer to marry in a white or pale princess ball gown, Brides from all over the world, originating each from their strong rich cultures opt to marry in vibrant, colourful dresses that also signifies well meaning, blessings and wishes on their wedding day, sort of like a silent prayer for blessed unions.

Here are the meanings behind their choice of colours to wear on their wedding day and who knows, your designer may be inspire to create something for you.

CHINESE BRIDES
Chinese brides opt for red for good luck and joy and details of gold for fortunes and prosperities.

MALAY BRIDES
Any vibrant colours depending on the brides taste and favourites, they may opt to wear different colours for different celebrations throughout their wedding process. White, Black and Red is generally frown upon.

INDIAN BRIDES
Bright yellow and gold is mostly preferred by young Indian brides that symbolizes wealth and blessings to herself, her husband and his families. Yellow and gold too bring out their wedding wellknown for their rich celebrations.

MORROCAN BRIDES
Like Indian Brides, the Moroccan brides choose bright yellow but they mean to ward of evil and green is another of their favourites because it brings good lucks and symbolizes greens and plants.

ISREALIS OR JEWISH BRIDES
Jewish brides prefer to wear a white wedding gown to symbolise purity and clarity. Blues represents mystical and spiritual powers.

JAPANESE BRIDES
A lavish white Kimono detail or lined with red symbolises happiness and a new beginning.

SPANISH BRIDES
To represent and display their love and devotion to their husband until death, Spanish brides wears lacy mantillas gown.

KOREAN BRIDES
Lime-green wonsam is worn over the traditional wedding dress, the hanbok. Wonsam is embroided with flowers and butterflies with the colour red representing heaven, indigo for earth and yellow colour for humanity. For respect to the elders and her husband, her hands are covered in white.

How to find the right wedding dress?

You’ve found the right guy. We’ll help you find the right gown!

Brides have the most fun, especially in Malaysia as we are not limited to just one style of wedding dress on our wedding day. Our cultures and religions allow us to wear as many dresses as our ceremony takes us, for instance, opting for a traditional dress for the ceremonial betrothal, a cocktail dress for rehearsals, a white satin princess-cut gown for our civil ceremony and an evening gown for the grand dinner.

While playing dress-up is a lot of fun, finding the right wedding dress can be mind-boggling and stressful. Here are some simple steps to follow when searching for your gown:

● Research international wedding magazines and online wedding sites.
● Be open and adventurous, try as many gowns as you can! On the rack, some wedding gowns
may seem unsuitable or not something you would wear, but it could look absolutely
gorgeous on you.
● if your budget allows it, go to a couturier for a gown especially designed and custom-
made to fit you.
● Know your options well : made-to-measure, buy off the rack, or rent?
● Keep in mind your wedding theme, venue and style.
● Check your timeline. Order your gown at least 6-8 months in advance (up to 12 months) and schedule a fitting two weeks to a month before your wedding.

A simple guide to choosing the right gown for the right body shape :

Tall and Thin
Make the most of your figure as you can go for any style you want! Go for soft, flowy materials, lots of detailing from the waitsline down, or with a satin sash tied elegantly around your waist to enhance your curves.

Slim and Petite
An A-line gown would be perfect for you. To look taller, opt for a higher waist cut or a V cut bodice to accentuate your waistline. Look captivating with an empire-cut gown complemented with flowy, chiffon materials from your bust line.

Full Figure
A V-cut neckline is most flattering. Go for detailing in the bust and neck line while keeping details and cut simple. Know your body and flaunt your best features while cleverly hiding others. A bodice will accentuate your waist and the straight cut hides the tummy. And instead of silky, shiny fabrics, choose soft, matte-coloured ones.

A tip: If you have purchased your wedding gowns some months before the wedding, store them elsewhere as staring at them continuously can make you far less excited.

How to find the right wedding dress ?

You’re found the right guy. We’ll help you find the right gown!

While playing dress-up is a lot of fun, finding the right wedding dress can be mind-boggling and stressful. Here are some simple steps to follow when searching for your gown:

A simple guide to choosing the right gown for the right body shape :

A tip: If you have purchased your wedding gowns some months before the wedding, store them elsewhere as staring at them continuously can make you far less excited.

How to find a good wedding photographer?

Caught on camera : Precious moments to last a lifetime

Photography is like making that first impression – you only get one chance to do it right. Your wedding photographs capture all the emotions, excitement and details, preserving the memories of the day you became man and wife. Needless to say, you won’t be giving this huge responsibility to your second cousin who happens to own a nice camera and loves taking photos. Good photography is an art which requires skill and planning, so choose your wedding photographer carefully.

Here are a few tips on finding the right professional :

Word-of-mouth
Ask your married friends and relatives about their wedding photographer, and more importantly, ask to see their wedding albums when they rave about how “awesome” their wedding photographer was. Actual wedding photos allow you to examine the quality and style of the photographer’s work. Word-of-mouth referrals not only promote a particular photographer’s work, but also his or her personality and work etiquette.

The personality test
Get to know your short listed photographers and see how easily they interact with you. An open-minded photographer who is interested in getting to know you and finding out what you want earns extra points! Remember that your photographer will need to bring out the best in you and your guests.

Price and timeline
Ask about the price upfront, and how the photographer’s services are charged. Some may charge by the hour, while others may offer packages.

Solo or team?
Does your photographer work alone, or does he work in a team? It is generally a good idea for you to hire a studio that provides more than one photographer to cover your wedding. The reasons :

● This prevents chaos if there are last minute no-shows or if a camera decides to quit.
● Total coverage of your wedding. Having more than one photographer means you can always have one by your side, while others can cover your party and guests.
● Beautiful, continuous photographs. One photographer will be able to stand before you as you walk down the aisle, while another may capture photographs of your train.

Let your photographer know exactly what you want and what you expect. Never assume that your photographer, given his or her experience, should know what you want. So take some time and think about what kind of photographs you want to fill your wedding album with, and write them down. Also inform your photographer about the sequence of events, duration of ceremonies and parties, travel (if any), and people to look out for during the wedding, e.g. parents, grandparents, or the granduncle who is famous for breaking into dance wherever there is a dance floor! Proper planning and successful communication with your photographer will save you the heartache of looking through your wedding photographs and not seeing what you want.

Setting the mood for your wedding

In Malaysia where weddings can be elaborate affairs spanning several days, involving huge guest lists, and comprising more than one ceremony (e.g. akad nikah and persandingan for the Malay wedding), you can make yours truly outstanding and unforgettable with the right theme and décor. In fact, you can go with one theme for the whole wedding while working with different variations for the décor, or go ahead and have fun with difference themes and décor throughout your wedding! The most important things to remember, other than your budget, is to ensure that your theme or themes suit your personality and style, and that you work with a wedding planner or decorator whose style really appeals to you. When it comes to a style or theme for a wedding, there are basically four main types :

The Romantic
Think gardens, hills, beaches and the countryside., for example. The romantic wedding usually features lots of flowers with pretty details such as ribbons, and favourite colour schemes include white and pastels such as pink, blue, purple and green.

Keeping in mind the weather conditions in Malaysia, the comfort of your guests is an utmost priority. Plan accordingly to include mist fans, use tents that promote ventilation, or choose a location that gets enough breeze. Resorts located in the hills and forest reserves of Malaysia make interesting locations, especially those in Pahang.

The Unique
You’ve heard of couples getting married underwater, in a hot-air balloon, or while skydiving. If you prefer something less “adventurous”, how about a picnic wedding or a reception at a historical building? The natural atmosphere of these locations will help you decide on the décor of your weddings, and all you need is some imagination and creativity to make it unique. An example is Baba & Nonya theme in a historical Malacca building, where attire and furniture may be inspired by the colours, patterns and props that are exclusive to the culture.

The Flamboyant
Anything goes, and generally, in the most unusual ways. Your themes can be inspired by anything such as “goth”, sci-fi (science fiction), or your favourite movie! The trick is how you and your wedding decorator turn it into a setting that is appropriate for a wedding. Trendy nightclubs or restaurants can be interesting wedding venues if you are able to reserve the place exclusively for your wedding. Colour schemes can range from bright and funky to dark and chic, just as long as you have the right combinations for the right ambience.

The Classic
Elegance is key for this style that is great for just about any location you can think of – in a magnificent ballroom, cosy restaurant or at home. Decorate with beautiful floral designs and use classic, all-time favourite colour schemes using combinations of white, silver, ivory and gold. You can even throw in an extra colour such as pink, lavender, red or black (for dramatic effect!).

12 month wedding checklist

10 – 12 MONTHS BEFORE:

- set your wedding date. Pick a few dates, just in case your desired venues are not available.
- Discuss with parents and future in-laws on the style & size of wedding ceremony.
- set a budget.
- Book a wedding consultant or wedding planner.
- Book a date with the ROM and the ceremony venue.
- Begin your guest list.
- Source for reception venues that suit your taste and budget. Certain months/dates are more popular than others and you need to book well in advance.
- Organize and file all important documents in a systematic order. Keep a separate file for payments and receipts. This will help you keep track of what has been done, what needs to be done and also manage all your expenses.
- Begin shopping for your bridal gowns, headpiece and bridal accessories.

6 – 10 MONTHS BEFORE:

- Confirm and book your venues if you haven’t done so.
- Select your attendants’ bridesmaid, best man, ring bearer, etc. Inform them about their duties.
- Plan your CD music selection or ask for quotes, if you are planning to hire a band or string quartet to Provide entertainment.
- Select the bridal boutique, followed by the bridal gowns and suits.
- Search for reputable hair & wedding makeup artist. Ask friends for recommendations.
- After confirming your bridal gowns and suits, start shopping for attendants’ attire.
- Shop for bridal accessories like bridal shoes, tiaras and jewellery.
- Help mothers of the bride and groom choose their dresses.
- Those having a church ceremony, plan your program, check out printers and get quotations
- Research and book your photographer / wedding videographer. Ask friends for recommendations.

3 – 6 MONTHS BEFORE:

- be sure deposits are paid and contracts signed.
- Confirm your tentative guest list
- Work on the final arrangements’ programs for wedding day, entertainment, etc.
- Order your wedding cake.
- Final confirmation on wedding venues and the officiant who is solemnizing your ceremony.
- Visit your hair and wedding makeup stylist/s. Discuss and try out different looks.
- Ensure bridal gowns and suits are ready for photography.
- Have studio / outdoor wedding photography taken.
- Choose and buy wedding rings, order engraving.
- Start finalizing plans for your honeymoon.
- Arrange wedding transportation.
- Arrange out-of-town guest accommodations.
- If you and your fiance don’t dance, begin lessons (if it applies to you).

2 – 3 MONTHS BEFORE:

- Print wedding cards.
- Reconfirm menu details. Remember to make arrangements for guests who are vegetarian or guest who takes halal food.
- Double check and confirm travel arrangements and hotel bookings for your honeymoon. Check your passbook availability and obtain a visa (if required).
- Decide venue decorations details with the wedding planner or hotel.
- Choose wedding favors / gifts for attendants.
- Mail wedding cards
- Have a final fitting at the bridal boutique. Ensure your bridal gowns and bridesmaids’ dresses will be ready on time.
- Finalize your transport, flower and music arrangements.
- Arrange for rehearsal if necessary at least one week before the wedding. Inform your attendants early.
- Prepare payment envelopes / ang pau for the fees and gratuities; or gifts for your wedding party. Eg. Your attendants, religious official, clergy, organist, soloist, etc.
- Purchase bridal shoes. Practice wearing your bridal shoes (at home or indoors) avoid blister feet on your wedding day.
- Ask relatives and friends to help at the wedding and reception.
- Select ceremony readings and write personal vows.
- Buy your guest book.

2 – 3 WEEKS BEFORE:

- Confirm dinner attendants
- Confirm dinner menu and food tasting.
- Confirm final program for dinner.
- Arrange for a church rehearsal at least one week before the wedding (if it applies to you). Inform your attendants early.
- Finalize seating arrangement for banquet.
- Remind florist to arrange for bridal bouquet and corsages to be sent to your place early or arrange for pick-up one day before your wedding.
- Submit the final guest count to the caterer / hotel.
- Arrange your head table seating.
- Pack for your honeymoon.
- Have a facial.

1 WEEK BEFORE:

- Have your rehearsal (if applicable).
- You may want to double check on the auspicious hour and have a run- through of the actual day customary formalities.
- One last fitting of your bridal gowns to ensure the size fits as there can sometimes be drastic weight loss due to nervousness or franticness as the big day approaches.
- Have a briefing with bridesmaids, best man and ushers to finalize duties assigned.
- Book a relaxing massage or spa for the two of you to soothe away jitters and stress you have built up over the months.
- Rest and eat well, drink lots of water so you’ll be absolutely fresh for the big day.

1 DAY AHEAD:

- Get a manicure.
- Pack things to take to the wedding site.

DAY OF THE WEDDING:

- Take a good breakfast.
- Have your hair and makeup done.
- Have your bridesmaid/ maid of honour or your attendants attend to giving out your gratuities such as ang pow on your wedding day while you enjoy your wedding day without fussing over the small stuff..
- Enjoy the day.

AFTER THE WEDDING:

- If you are going away on your honeymoon immediately, ask someone to help you tie up loose ends such as returning of loaned / rental items.
- Send ‘Thank You’ cards even if abroad. It would contain that extra touch if you send them during your vacation as it shows you have not forgotten the help of those who had offered their assistance.

Basic Wedding Planning Tips

To our wonderful brides and readers, this page features 4 basic wedding planning tips for all you newly engaged couples.

Hope this helps you get a head start of your planning.

Happy reading!

4 Back to Basics Planning Tips

1) Set a budget.

This little piece of advice is as old as the hills but it’s so important and allows you to build a firm foundation for your wedding. Many couples struggle to set a budget because if you’ve never planned a wedding, it’s hard to know what is realistic and how far your money will go. However most people know how much they can realistically afford and how much they are comfortable spending on one event: it really is worth spending some time researching and getting your budget right at the beginning. Until you have a budget, you can’t begin approaching suppliers and all of your plans become a series of confusing ‘what ifs’. It’s much better to start things off properly with a good idea of what you can spend in each area.

2) Clarify your priorities.

Unless you’re on a very large budget, you will have to compromise on some aspects of your day. Identify your top 5 priorities at the outset so that you can concentrate your budget and energy on doing a few things really well rather than spreading yourself too thinly and doing everything badly. We tend to find that for most couples that as they focus on a particular part of the celebrations that aspect becomes THE most important part of everything and that it becomes very tempting to overspend. Formally setting your priorities at the outset helps to guard against this and saves lots of heartache down the line.

3) Get the basics in place first.

From the second that engagement ring is on, planning a wedding can be an overwhelming whirlwind of well meaning people asking questions and giving their opinion. Rather than allowing yourself to be swallowed up into the insanity of it all, take a couple of weeks to soak up your new status and to slowly chat your ideas through with your partner. Once you have a rough idea of what you want as a couple, you can begin (slowly and rationally) putting the basics into place. You’ll need to start with finding your venue and you’ll be able to narrow down the options by budget, availability and style. Once your venue is confirmed you will have a date and this will allow you to begin approaching the other suppliers. Here, our advice is to focus on those suppliers who can only do one wedding per day e.g. photographers, transport, entertainment, hair and make up artists. After booking these suppliers, you can relax and start thinking about the visual aspects of the day and finding items such as dresses and stationery. Don’t be tempted to do these things before you’ve confirmed your basic suppliers as you will only tie yourself up into stressful knots and end up making little if any progress.

4) Finally, view your wedding holistically.

It’s easy to view your wedding as one long to do list but it’s vitally important that you don’t make decisions (especially regarding visual elements) without considering other aspects to ensure there is a thread of continuity running throughout your celebration. For example, it’s easy to rush out and buy a dress before you’ve really thought about items such as your venue or entertainment. However, the style of your dress should be heavily influenced by your venue and how formal your celebration will be. This in turn will effect the type of entertainment you choose, the style of your flowers and even the type of menu you serve. As bizarre as it sounds, it’s really important to consider all of these items together because if you don’t your wedding will lose its sense of flow and can end up feeling as though it has lost it’s soul.

By its very nature, being engaged doesn’t last forever so enjoy it while you can; take things slowly and don’t be tempted to wish it away. There are no second chances with weddings!

{Article is sourced from weddingsbyzoëlingard}

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Profiles of Dai Kam Jie's

Below are some profiles of Chaperon's or Dai Kam Jie's. This was translated from chinese to english. If any correction is needed, please feel free to tell me.

I am a Kam Jie from Perlis. At the same time I have a wedding services shop in Puchong opened by me and Loinnie. To serve the convenience of the couples yet preserving the Chinese traditional culture. I have more than 20 years of experience in my job. I am a traditional “dai kam” with the proficiency in Cantonese and Chinese language.

CONTACT – 016-202 8978 , 03-8075 4959.

I’m Anna Wong from Jinjang. I have a shop in partnered with Wong Jie selling wedding groceries. To serve the convenience of the couples yet preserving the Chinese traditional culture. I also conduct training lessons for those who wants to be Dai Kum Jie. Successfully trained 41 Dai kum Jie so far. All of them perform well, able to speak fluently in Cantonese, hakka, hokkien and mandarin language.

Has been in this occupation for 10 years. Hobby : singing, dancing.

Has been awarded ‘ A Dai Kum Jie who is capable of leading goodness in couples and speaks well ‘ during a wedding dinner in ‘lee wang kee’ restaurant.

CONTACT – 016 2711176 / 019-3816733.

I’m Wong Jie from the north of Jin Jang area, Ipoh Road. Has high proficiency in hokkien, Cantonese, hakka, mandarin language. I have more than 20 years of experience in this field, humorous and understanding.

Partnered with Anna Wong in selling wedding groceries.

CONTACT - 016 2139993 / 03-62571866

I’m Hun Jin from the south part of Jin Jang. I can speak well in Hakka, Hokkien, Cantonese and Mandarin. Has been in this field for 8 years. A student of Anna Wong.

I have obtained championship in a Dai Kum contest held in Klang’s Hokkien Society.

CONTACT – 012 6295285 , 02 62530196

I’m Fook Jie from Kepong. I speak well in Cantonese, Hakka, Hokkien and Mandarin. I have 7 years of experience, 3^rd student of Anna Wong and once outperformed in a Dai Kum Jie contest held in Klang’s Hokkien Society.

CONTACT – 012 -222 3878, 012 222 3826, 03 62801549

I am Look Ngan Jie from Kepong. I can speak well in Cantonese, Hakka, Hokkien and Mandarin. I have 6 years of experience and I ranked 11^th under the mentorship of Anna Wong. I manage to get 1^st runner up in a Dai Kum Jie contest held in Klang’s Hokkien Society. Heartily works for couples, speaks well, dance well and presentable.

CONTACT – 012 3762318

I am Linda Jie from Jalan Ipoh Batu 5. Able to speak fluently in Cantonese, hakka, mandarin, English and hokkien. I have 5 years of experience and ranked 13^th under the mentorship of Anna Wong. I have successfully conducted lots of job for western couples. There aren’t many Dai Kum who can speaks well in English, I’m one of them.

CONTACT – 017 2521818

I am Qiao Wan Jie from Kepong. I can speak well in Cantonese, Hakka, Mandarin and Hokkien. I have 5 years of experience and ranked 14^th under Anna Wong’s teaching. I love singing and participated in many singing contests.

CONTACT – 016 3468397

I am Zhuan Jie ( Grace Mak) from pudu, cheras. I can speak well in Cantonese, mandarin and English. I have 5 years of experience and I ranked 17^th in Anna Wong’s mentorship. Outperform in a Dai Kum Jie contest held in Klang’s Hokkien Society. I’m a humorous person.

CONTACT – 012 6338684, 03 21426977

I am Yu Ying Jie ( Jennefer) from Kepong, Sri Bintang. I can speak well in Cantonese, mandarin and hokkien. I have 4 years of experience and ranked 21^st under the mentorship of Anna Wong.

CONTACT – 012 3808117

I am Gui Fei Jie from Sri Bintang. I have high proficiency in speaking Cantonese, Hakka, Mandarin, English and Bahasa Melayu. In addition, I can speak a little bit of Japanese. I have 4 years of experience and ranked 20^th under the mentorship of Anna Wong. I’m currently the youngest among all my colleagues.

CONTACT - 012-606 1863

I am Xue Li Jie (Shirley) from Cheras. I can speak well in Cantonese, Hakka and Mandarin. I have 3 years of experience and ranked 23^rd under the mentorship of Anna Wong.

CONTACT – 012 3278621

I am Xiu Jun Jie from Bukit Bintang. I can speak well in Cantonese, Hakka, Mandarin and Hokkien. I have served in this industry for 15 years and expertise in Hokkiens’ traditions.

CONTACT – 012 2162832

I am Jin Shi Jie (Molly). I can speak well in Cantonese, Hokkien, Hakka and Mandarin. It is my pleasure to enjoy the whole wedding day with the couples.

CONTACT – 016 3634110, 03 62755993

I am Hong Shao (a male) from Rawang. I can speak well in Cantonese. I’m 40 years old and the only male student of Anna Wong. I have 2 years of experience and I am good at creating a good environment on the stage. I can even speak Chinese idioms fluently. I am the only male Dai Kum and performed well in a Dai Kum Jie contest held in Klang’s Hokkien Society. I received interviews from NanYang news and Guang Ming news representatives.

CONTACT – 012 3419394

I am Xia Jie from north part of JinJang. I can speak well in Cantonese, Hakka, Mandarin and Hokkien. I have 15 years of experience and ranked 12^th under the mentorship of my master, Anna Wong. I’ll give my best to do the best.

CONTACT – 016 3670177, 03 62570791

I am Hui Jie. I started this job since the day of my marriage and heartily attracted to the Dai Kum’s service. I have 3 years of experience and speak fluently in Cantonese, Hakka, Mandarin and Hokkien.

CONTACT – 016 238 8687

I am Xue Li Jie (Sally Chin) from Kepong. I can speak well in Cantonese, Mandarin, Hakka and Hokkien.

CONTACT – 012 3816112

I am Ru Yii Jie (Evon Lee). I’m a student of Anna Wong and ranked 7^th. I have 7 years of experience and speak fluently in Cantonese, Mandarin, Hakka and Hokkien. I love singing and I outperformed in a Dai Kum Jie contest held in Klang’s Hokkien Society.

CONTACT – 012 222 3878

I am Gui Zhen Jie, a Hokkien. I can speak well in Cantonese, Hokkien and English.

CONTACT – 012 2510103

I am Mei Jie. I have lots of friends and colleagues working in the same industry. I handle marriage arrangements seriously and will try my very best to ensure things go alright. I’ll treat the couples just like the son and daughter of mine.

CONTACT – 017 6059866

I am Hui Xia Jie (Jennifer). I speak well in Cantonese, Hakka and Hokkien. I have 5 years of experience and I share my jokes and joys with every couples I encounter.

CONTACT – 012 3485048 , 012 3385048

I am Gui Jie. I have 6 years of experience and speak fluently in Cantonese, Mandarin, Hokkien and Hakka. I practice the principles of obeying requests and self- improvement.

CONTACT – 016 6986610

I am Mei Zhen Jie, a Hokkien. I have 5 years of experience and I am capable of leading couples through a Chinese traditional marriage ceremony. I will provide the best service. I can speak well in Hokkien, Cantonese and Mandarin.

CONTACT – 016 3928946

My name is Kim. Since 2007 I have been working with English speaking couples, who wanted a Chinese traditional wedding but do not know how to go about it.

I am extremely pleased to see many young couples going for traditional wedding and customs, especially interracial marriages . If you need my expertise, please do not hesitate to contact

Tel : 016-6261673 or email : kim88@gmail.com

Source: http://www.xilinmen2u.com/t1/index.php